OK, fellows, I told you I would get back to you when I found the solution. It has been found and was one of those maddening things that one would not suspect. After 3 tries I finally got a tech at my ISP that had the right idea. Here is what happened....
I work in a Mac environment and for years have ordered my data alphabetically in order to find it. Occasionally I will put files/folders "to the top" of a column by placing an "A." in front of their name to force them to the top. Years ago I learned another trick that will force names to the top of an alphabetic column by putting one or more empty spaces before the name. This will put the name with the space at the top. A name with 2 spaces will go up above that and so on.
For some reason on this project I decided to use that method to order my files and used the "empty space" method to put the output Flash files at the top of the column.
If you see where this is heading...
My ISP server will not accept spaces before names. The weird thing is that in their own file manager the spaces don't even show. At one point I had suspected that might be the problem and I tried to erase the blank spaces. But, when I re-ran some of the files to try .flv vs. .f4v the spaces came back and I either decided it didn't matter or did not notice them because they don't show in their file manager.
Anyway, the whole problem was resolved by taking "empty spaces" off the titles of the Flash files.
Regardless, thanks for the help all of you provided. I learned some other things because of it.
Here is a test page that should work for you now if you want to check it out:
http://fitzvideo.com/pktest/pk_test_choice.html