Another solution: In flowplayer.playlist.js, change
to
Then only children in .yourclass activate the playlist when clicked, so you can add download links with no problem.
els = wrap.children().unbind("click.playlist").bind("click.playlist", function() {
to
els = wrap.find(".yourclass").unbind("click.playlist").bind("click.playlist", function() {
Then only children in .yourclass activate the playlist when clicked, so you can add download links with no problem.