Ok well then my searching for this which ended up with nothing couldn't of ended any other way. Its not top priority for us to have this but it something that would be desirable in the future. It was in version 2.x which is part of the confusion.
I've been playing with your source code and modified some things to suit our needs (hard coding settings so users can't change them). If we get the time we may try to extend your player and include a flash integration that can achieve this. However if we do do this then its going to be integrated directly in the core flash file since we don't want 3rd party sites that embed our video to remove it via javascript. We will still provide you with the source so that you can create a plugin out of however.
I've been playing with your source code and modified some things to suit our needs (hard coding settings so users can't change them). If we get the time we may try to extend your player and include a flash integration that can achieve this. However if we do do this then its going to be integrated directly in the core flash file since we don't want 3rd party sites that embed our video to remove it via javascript. We will still provide you with the source so that you can create a plugin out of however.